Choosing an engagement ring is a big deal! It's a symbol of love and commitment, and you want it to be perfect. But what if "perfect" doesn't mean a traditional diamond on a gold band? I've always been drawn to unique styles, so when it came time to pick out my own ring, I explored alternative metals and gemstones. Let me share my experience and what I learned along the way.
I was initially captivated by the idea of a silver engagement ring. I love the cool, understated elegance of silver. I also adore aquamarine – its delicate blue hue is just stunning. I envisioned a beautiful, unique ring that perfectly reflected my personality. I thought that a 10k or 14k white gold band would hold up better than silver.
However, as I delved deeper into my research, I quickly realized that silver might not be the most practical choice for an engagement ring, which is typically worn every day. I discovered that silver is a relatively soft metal. I wear a lot of silver rings, and they scratch up very easily. Some have even bent out of shape from everyday wear and tear. That made me pause and reconsider. I wanted something that would last.
Then there was the aquamarine. I was so drawn to its beauty, but I learned that it, too, has its drawbacks. I found out that aquamarine is a softer stone and will scratch up. If that bothers you, you have to be prepared to replace it. It's a 7.5~8 on the Mohs hardness scale. Mineral dust is around a 7.5, so over time it will wear, scratch and lose its shine.
Before fully committing to aquamarine for my engagement ring, I decided to experiment. I bought a white sapphire and sterling silver travel ring from a big box store. I figured it would give me a good idea of how well these materials would hold up to daily wear. I haven't worn it a ton, but it is 11 years old. After several years of only occasional wear, it's pretty trashed. I could maybe get it cleaned and rhodium plated, but even the stone looks terrible now.
Discouraged but not defeated, I started looking at other options. I learned that sapphire is a great alternative to aquamarine. It's much harder and more durable, making it a better choice for everyday wear. Even sapphire will wear and scratch over time, but it's significantly more resistant than aquamarine.
While I ultimately decided against a silver and aquamarine engagement ring for myself (opting for a different, more durable combination), I still appreciate the beauty of these materials. I found a way to incorporate them into my style in a different way. I purchased a Men's Stylish Gold Color Square Necklace with Lapis Lazuli Stone Pendant from SumsFashion Necklaces. While not silver or aquamarine, it satisfies my desire for unique and stylish jewelry. This necklace features a beautiful lapis lazuli stone, which has a similar cool tone to aquamarine. The gold color provides a touch of warmth and sophistication, and the stainless steel construction ensures durability.
I love that I can wear this necklace every day without worrying about scratching or bending it. It's a great way to express my personal style without sacrificing practicality. Plus, it was an affordable way to add some flair to my wardrobe. I have bought several pieces from Sumsfashion, and I have never been disappointed.
If you're considering a non-traditional engagement ring, here are some tips based on my experience: